Michael Jordan, one of the greatest basketball players of all time, signed an endorsement deal with Nike that would later become a billion dollar franchise. Air Jordans became one of the leading sports brands of our time. Although somewhat pricey most pair start well over 100 dollars and although the styles seem to repeat themselves years later, these popular shoes never seem to go out of style. You may ask what is the post about? What does this have to do with my post? Well, let me explain. Ladies, are you the Kelly Kapowski chick? Kelly Kapowski, played by Tiffany Amber Thiessen, was America's sweetheart in the the hit tv show, Saved By The Bell. Are you the chick who has never had a problem getting a man and keeping one? No, not the sexy vixen that oozes sex appeal and confidence, but are you the pretty girl with morals, the girl next door, the all around "good girl" whose innocence and somewhat naive perspective that all people are good ultimately attracts almost any man to you? The bad thing about being this type of woman is that you are a high commodity woman that most men want, just like a pair of Jordans, but also just like a pair of Jordans, when the next pair comes out, you are left on the shelf almost forgotten. Being a Kelly Kapowski often has you in a relationship with men who make promises to keep you, because after all, they know you are valuable and sought after by many, but they have no intentions of being what you need in a partner. The Kelly Kapowski chick is the woman who has had multiple long term relationships, several engagements, and maybe marriages. She is the one who still believes in love, but defines who she is by loving others, and believing that the longer she stays it will get better. She is the one with the kind heart that ultimately attracts the type of men that most women seek out. She is the humble ride or die chick, boss chick, and Proverbs 31 chick in training. She is the phenomenal woman that doesn't have to twerk, be scantily clad, or fit in with the mainstream because her beauty and spirit radiate when she walks into a room. Although she chooses a partner wisely, the partner she chooses is well aware that he must play a certain role to "take her out of the store" . Therefore, he may go out of his way to be everything he thinks she wants, but this is only a temporary façade. He soon realizes that this type of woman is hard to keep. The things she seek aren't material things that he can easily acquire, but things that require mental, emotional, and spiritual maturity. He just isn't prepared to make that change. Most men who own several pairs of Jordan make sure they are kept clean and in the original shoe box. You will never find a man mowing the grass in a a new pair of Jordans. He has another pair of older shoes that he doesn't mind getting dirty. Most Kelly Kapowski chicks are not the side chicks, because like I said, they are everything most men want, but they aren't fully prepared to receive and put forth the effort to keep. The shoes he does the yard work in are the side chick. Ladies, if you are a Kelly Kapowski or any other type of woman don't be a pair of Jordans. Know your worth, and learn to love with discretion. Learn to be selfish and not settle for anything. Learn not to stay just because you don't want to feel like you wasted the time you invested. Realize that you can't change a man and that ultimately they have to do that themselves. Still believe in love, but allow love to find you and show you its truth before making the commitment. Don't allow a man to use you and then put you back in the box on the shelf. You are worth so much more. "The biggest coward of a man is to awaken the love of a women without the intention of loving her." ~Bob marley xoxo, Krystale Jane'l
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