We all saw or (at least saw the memes) from Representative Maxine Waters iconic moment with the Treasury Meeting where she repeatedly stated, "Reclaiming My Time". Maxine Waters is the OG of politics and has been none to bluntly tell the truth, drop the mic, and keep it so real she has become one of the favorite politicians for most Millennials.
One thing we all should learn from this now legendary quote is how to reclaim our time. We as women spend so much time giving ourselves to others we barely make time for ourselves. We take on the roles of mothers, wives, employees, friends, and all the other titles we so proudly hold but we never make time for ourselves. Sometimes we as Christians say, "Well, I make time for God." Do you make time for yourself? It's time for us to be selfish and make time to enjoy our own lives so we can learn to see the value we have in other people's lives . I can't stress the importance of being selfish sometimes. Focus on you. Be on your Eat Pray Love sh#t, take a trip, plan a spa day, hang with your girls...whatever it is that keeps you sane and is a reminder to you that it's more to life than just being a giver and a nurturer....do it. Now my next topic: If there was ever a time in my life i wish I could be an "Indian Giver" it would have to be when giving up the coochie. Ladies, how many times have we wished we could take our coochie back from a intricately crafted F#@k boy. For those of you who don't know the definition of a F#@k boy let me elaborate... The dictionary.com definition of a "fuckboy" is: "In mainstream culture, a fuckboy is a guy who doesn’t respect women, yet relies on them heavily. He’s a guy who’s distant, doesn’t care about a woman’s time, and won’t commit. He’s self-absorbed and is never looking for anything serious relationship-wise.A fuckboy could also refer to a guy who is always doing stupid things and getting into trouble." Both of these definitions apply to what a fuckboy is. A fuckboy can be a player, a manipulator, a guy who can't seem to get things right in his life, a guy who thinks he is a good guy but really is a fuckboy...as what was cleverly defined in the last season of Insecure. Its no secret I wish I could get a coochie credit and take back some of the coochie I gave to men who I thought were indeed good men but turned out to be fuck boys. Dealing with Fuckboys leaves us with unnecessary baggage that real men will have to deal with. It isn't worth it, and lets be clear it isn't worth the body count for those of us who aren't celibate. If I knew then what I know, I can most definitely say there are some relationships in my life I would have avoided. Thats why Im reclaiming my vagina. Im reclaiming a Fuckboy free vagina, a vagina that is V.S.OP. reserved. A vagina that is immune to b.s. and that is uniquely designed for my hubby who I love so very much. So my sisters its time we reclaim our time and our vaginas. It's time we emancipate ourselves from b.s. and irrelevant people....So ladies, put your right hand over your heart and say this out loud: I solemnly swear that from this day forward I will be who I was destined to be. I will no longer allow others to dictate my life and my time. I will make time for myself so that I can be better for others. I make this solemn promise that I will whole heartedly seek the truth in a man so i can be fuckboy free. With this oath I promise to love myself, others, and be the best me I can be for myself, God, and my loved ones. xoxo, Krystale Jane'l
Click to set custom HTML
0 Comments
Leave a Reply. |
Details
|